I Have A Child With My Brother's Ex-Wife, My Brother & My Wife Don't Know



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Hello everyone I’m new to this forum this is my first post. 


Please pardon my English it is not fluent because I’m French speaking but I’m married to your Nigerian sister (my wife). 


I’m vincent by name. 30 years old married for 2 years with no child yet. I come from a family of 3 brothers and I’m the last born. Our dad passed away 20 years ago so it was our mom who took care of us. She fought so hard for us to have a better life. Unfortunately, she also passed away 13 years ago. I was only 17, my senior brother, our first born was married with a son 4 years old at that time. My middle brother was studying at the university and I went to stay with my elder brother.


His wife started seducing me anytime my brother is away on business trips. She will try all her power but I was rejecting her by reminding her that she is my brother’s wife and I will never deceive him by sleeping with her, and she started maltreating me by not giving me food and giving me lots of housework to do. I never disrespected her and I will do as she said. 


I was scared to tell my brother because he is a short tempered man. He had so much love for his wife and he wouldn’t even believe me, so she carried on with her mission. After two years, I was just 19 years old and she was 27, I gave in by sleeping with her (worst mistake ever). We started doing it lots of times when my brother is away on business or when the son is at school. She was then pregnant by me. I have begged her to abort it but she went ahead with the pregnancy. All my brother knew was that he was the father and she had a baby girl who is my carbon copy but people can’t see it because they will always says she is looking like me but no one had suspected that she is mine even my brother.


After the baby, I could not continue sleeping with her. She was angry at me, threatened me that she will send me to prìson but I made my mind no to do it again so after 2 years of supporting her madness, I had enough that made me leave the house for good. I went to stay with a friend and I was still in good relationship with my brother even though he tried to find out what was my reason for leaving the house. I made up some lies he accepted it. 


He and his wife had two more children which made them four – 2 boys and 2 girls, but he caught her with another man on their matrimonial bed and he went for DNA for their last child because she is very fair like a mixed race compared to her other siblings who are dark skin and the result came up that he was not the biological father so he divorced her but kept the child because he love the child.


Since the divorce my brother’s life is not the same. He is broke and he is an alcoholic and womaniser. I have given him money several times to start business but he’s still spending the money on women and alcohol. I stopped giving him money but I do provide food and school fees for all four children. 


My problem is that since I got married, my wife had three miscarriages, by four months she will loose the pregnancy. It really broke her heart and I’m in so much pain too but I believed that I’m being punished for having a child with my ex-sister-in-law and my poor wife is paying for something she never did. 


I love her so much and I don’t want to loose her. No one else knows about this but me and ex-sister-in-law. I really want to confess and be free but I dont know how to tell this to my wife and brother. My wife adores my brother’s child, they spend holidays in our house and my brother has never question the other 3 DNA because he has a strong believe that they are all his, except the youngest girl. My daughter is now 10 years. 


Please advice me on how to bring this matter to him. Please no insult. I regret my mistake and sometime wish it was a dream . Sorry for the long post.


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